Books: Men’s Issues
This is a list of books I recommend for a variety of issues. The books are organized in alphabetical order. I frequently update this list. I have included books for the lay public and at least one workbook. Often many of these books are available as audiobooks.
Last update: Nov. 2022
ADDICTION & SUBSTANCE USE DISORDERS
Carnes, P. (1994). A gentle path through the twelve steps.
Johnson, V. (1990). I’ll quit tomorrow.
Miller, W. R., & Munoz, R. F. (2004). Controlling your drinking: Tools to make moderation work for you.
Perkinson, R. (2012). The alcoholism & drug abuse client workbook.
Washton, A., & Zweben, J. (2009). Cocaine and methamphetamine addiction: Treatment, recovery, and relapse prevention.
ATTENTION DEFICIT HYPERACTIVITY DISORDER (ADHD)
Barkley, R. (2021). Taking Charge of Adult ADHD, Second Edition.
Boissiere, P. (2018). Thriving with Adult ADHD: Skills to Strengthen Executive Functioning.
Crosby, g. (2017). Transforming ADHD: Simple, Effective Skills to Help You Focus and Succeed.
Dawson, P., Guare, R. (2016). The Smart but Scattered Guide to Success.
Safren, S., Sprich, S., Perlman, C., & Otto, M. (2017). Mastering your adult ADHD: A cognitive-behavioral treatment program—Client workbook.
ANGER AND RAGE
Engel, B. (2003). Honor Your Anger.
Martin, R. (2021). Why We Get Mad: How to Use Your Anger for Positive Change.
Nay, W. R. (2012). Taking Charge of Anger. (2nd ed.)
Potter-Efron, R. (2007). Rage: A step-by-step guide to overcoming explosive anger.
Smith, L. (2021). Anger Management for Dummies, 3rd edition
Tafrate, R. C., Kassinove, H. (2019) Anger Management for Everyone: Ten proven methods to control anger and live a happier life (2nd ed.)
ANGER - PASSIVE AGGRESSION
Kantor, M. (2016). Passive-Aggression: Understanding the Sufferer, Helping the Victim (2nd Ed.)
Murphy, T., Oberlin, L.H. (2016) Overcoming Passive-Aggression.
ANXIETY & SOCIAL ANXIETY
Leahy, R. L. (2020). Don't Believe Everything You Feel: A CBT Workbook to Identify Your Emotional Schemas and Find Freedom from Anxiety and Depression.
ASSERTIVENESS
Paterson, R. J. (2000) The Assertiveness Book.
Alberti, R. E., and Emmons, M. (2017). Your Perfect Right: Assertiveness and Equality in your life and relationships
CAREER, JOB AND VOCATION
Bolles, R. N. (2009). The job-hunters survival guide: How to find a rewarding job even “when there are no jobs.”
Bolles, R. N. (2011). What color is your parachute? 2012: A practical manual for job hunters and career changes
Dalton, S. (2020). The 2-Hour Job Search, Second Edition: Using Technology to Get the Right Job Faster.
Newport, Cal (2013). So Good They Can’t Ignore You.
CO-DEPENDENCE
Beatie, M. (2009). The new codependency: Help and guidance for today’s generation.
Beattie, M. (2011). Codependent no more workbook.
Cohen, I. (2017).When It's Never About You: The People-Pleaser's Guide to Reclaiming Your Health, Happiness and Personal Freedom
Engle, B. (2003). The emotionally abusive relationship: How to stop being abused and how to stop abusing.
Evans, P. (2003). The verbally abusive relationship.
Lancer, D. (2019). Codependency for Dummies
DEPRESSION
Duff, R. (2016). Hardcore Self Help: F**k Depression.
Frederick (2009). Living Like You Mean It: Use the Wisdom and Power of Your Emotions to Get the Life You Really Want.
Gilson, M., Freemen, A. (2009). Overcoming depression: A cognitive therapy approach—Workbook.
Hendel, H J. (2018). It's Not Always Depression.
Horowitz, J. (2018). How to Stop Feeling So Damn Depressed: The No-BS Guide for Men.
Real T. (1998). I Don't Want to Talk About It: Overcoming the Secret Legacy of Male Depression.
FAMILY CONFLICTS AND DYSFUNCTION
Allen, D. (2018). Coping with Critical, Demanding, and Dysfunctional Parents.
Campbell, S. (2019 ) But It's Your Family: Cutting Ties with Toxic Family Members and Loving Yourself in the Aftermath
Gibson, L. (2015). Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents.
(2019) Recovering from Emotionally Immature Parents.
(2021) Self-Care for Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents
Woolis, R. (2003). When Someone You Love Has a Mental Illness: A Handbook for Family, Friends, and Caregivers.
GUILT AND SHAME
Borgo, J. (2018). Shame: Free Yourself, Find Joy, and Build True Self-Esteem
Matsakis, A. (1999). Survivor Guilt.
Obershaw, R. (2004). Cry Until You Laugh: Comforting Guidance for Coping with Grief.
GRIEF AND LOSS
James, J., & Friedman, R. (2009). The Grief Recovery Handbook: The Action Program for Moving Beyond Death, Divorce, and Other Losses.
Moore, T. (2005). Dark nights of the soul: A guide to finding your way through life’s ordeals.
Smedes, L. (2007). Forgive and Forget: Healing the Hurts We Don't Deserve.
Westberg, G. (2004). Good grief: A constructive approach to the problem of loss.
Zonnebelt-Smeenge, S., & DeVries, R. (1998). Getting to the other side of grief: Overcoming the loss of a spouse.
(2006). Traveling through Grief: Learning to live again after the death of a loved one.
JEALOUSY AND INSECURITY
Baum, J. (2022). Anxiously Attached: Becoming More Secure in Life and Love
Leahy, R. (2020).The Jealousy Cure: Learn to Trust, Overcome Possessiveness, and Save Your Relationship
Labriola, K. (2020). The Jealousy Workbook: Exercises and Insights for Managing Open Relationships
Stockill, Z. (2020 ). Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy: A Guide to Getting Over Your Partner's Past and Finding Peace
LONELINESS (MAKING FRIENDS)
Baker, B. (2021). We Need to Hang Out: A Memoir of Making Friends.
Carson, J. (2021). The Making Friends Playbook: Your Guide to Overcoming Challenges in Building Relationships.
Kelaher, H. (2020). Here to Make Friends: How to Make Friends as an Adult.
Shumway, K. (2018). The Friendship Formula: How to Say Goodbye to Loneliness and Discover Deeper Connection
Vellos, K. (2020). We Should Get Together: The Secret to Cultivating Better Friendships.
PEOPLE PLEASING & “NICE-GUY SYNDROME”
Braiker, H. B. (2001). The Disease to Please: Curing the People-Pleasing Syndrome
Bryans, J. (2021). Stop People Pleasing: Break Free of Approval Addiction, Stop Always Saying Yes, Set Healthy Boundaries and Rediscover the Authentic Version of Yourself
Gazipura, A. (2017). Not Nice: Stop People Pleasing, Staying Silent, & Feeling Guilty... And Start Speaking Up, Saying No, Asking Boldly, And Unapologetically Being Yourself
Glover, R. (2001). No more Mr. Nice Guy! A Proven Plan for Getting What You Want in Love, Sex, and Life
Praiser, M. (2020). No More Mr. Nice Guy: The Hero’s Journey
INTIMATE RELATIONSHIP, MARRIAGE AND DATING
ANGER IN RELATIONSHIP
Christensen, A., & Jacobson, N. S. (2000). Reconcilable differences.
Cordova, J. V. (2009). The marriage checkup: A scientific program for sustaining and strengthening marital health.
Deffenbacher, J. L., & McKay, M. (2008). Overcoming situational and general anger: Client manual.
Enel, B. (201). The Emotionally Abusive Relationship: How to Stop Being Abused and How to Stop Abusing
Nay, R. ( 201). Overcoming Anger in Your Relationship: How to Break the Cycle of Arguments, Put-Downs, and Stony Silences
Notarius, C., & Markman, H. (1994). We can work it out: Making sense of marital conflict.
Semmelroth, C. (201). The Anger Habit in Relationships: A Communication Handbook for Relationships, Marriages and Partnerships
ATTACHMENT THEORY
Levine, A. (2012 ). Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find - and Keep - Love
Chen, A. (2019). The Attachment Theory Workbook
ATTACHMENT THEORY: ANXIOUS
Becker-Phelps, L. (2014). Insecure in Love: How Anxious Attachment Can Make You Feel Jealous, Needy, and Worried and What You Can Do About It
Skeen, M. (2014). Love Me, Don't Leave Me: Overcoming Fear of Abandonment and Building Lasting, Loving Relationships
Daitch, D. (2012). Anxious in Love: How to Manage Your Anxiety, Reduce Conflict, and Reconnect with Your Partner
Zaid, T. (2021). Anxious Attachment No More!!
Miller, T. (2021). ANXIETY in RELATIONSHIP expanded edition
Crossley, T. (2021). Overcoming Insecure Attachment.
ATTACHMENT THEORY: AVOIDANT
Kinninson, J. (2014). Avoidant: How to Love (or Leave) a Dismissive Partner
Crossley, T. (2021). Overcoming Insecure Attachment.
BLAME AND CONTEMPT
Eddy, B. (2012). It's All Your Fault!: 12 Tips for Managing People Who Blame Others for Everything
Hannah, S. (2019). How to Hold a Grudge: From Resentment to Contentment.
Lukeman, A. (1996) Beyond Blame: Reclaim the Power you give to Others.
Karen, R. (2003). The Forgiving Self: The Road from Resentment to Connection.
Knaus, W. J. (2000). Take charge now!: Powerful techniques for breaking the blame habit.
Miller, J. G. (2005). QBQ! The question behind the question: What to really ask yourself to eliminate blame, complaining, and procrastination.
Nelson, M. (2016). Living Happily Ever After Releasing Wounds, Hurts, and Resentments.
Wetzler, S., & Cole, D. (1998). Is it you or is it me?: How we turn our emotions inside out and blame each other.
BREAK-UP AND HEARTBREAK
McWilliams, P., Colgrove, M., Bloomfield, H. (2006) How to Survive the Loss of a Love.
Halpern, H. (2003) How to Break Your Addiction to a Person: When--and Why--Love Doesn't Work.
Freebe, A. (2019) The Break Up Manual For Men.
Thomas, K.W. (2015). Conscious Uncoupling: 5 Steps to Living Happily Even After.
Winch, G. (2018). How to Fix a Broken Heart.
Peterson, D. (2020). The Breakup Cure: The Proven Plan On How To Get Over Your Ex And Heal Your Broken Heart.
Brown, N. (2016). Heart On Break: Taking a break from relationships to become a better man.
Waxman, J. (2015). How to Break Up With Anyone: Letting Go of Friends, Family, and Everyone In-Between.
Priebe, H. (2016). This Is Me Letting You Go.
HEARTBREAK AND BREAKUP: STARTING OVER
Anderson, S. (2014) The Journey from Abandonment to Healing: Revised and Updated: Surviving Through and Recovering from the Five Stages That Accompany the Loss of Love.
Chan, A. (2020). Breakup Bootcamp: The Science of Rewiring Your Heart.
Dawson, N. (2019). No Breakup Can Break You: The Definitive Recovery Guide for Men.
DSO (2019). NOW WHAT?: A Guide for Men Starting Over in Life After Infidelity, Breakup and Divorce.
Elliot, S. J. (2009). Getting Past Your Breakup: How to Turn a Devastating Loss into the Best Thing That Ever Happened to You.
Faith, J. M. (2017). "Leave Her Be": A Man's Guide to Surviving Heartbreak.
Fisher, B. (2016). Rebuilding: When Your Relationship Ends.
COMMUNICATION ISSUES
Christensen, A., & Jacobson, N. S. (2000). Reconcilable differences.
Cordova, J. V. (2009). The marriage checkup: A scientific program for sustaining and strengthening marital health.
Fruzzetti, A. (2006). The High-Conflict couple.
Gottman, J. M., Gottman, J. S., & Declaire, J. (2006). Ten lessons to transform your marriage.
Johnson. S. (2008). Hold me tight: Seven conversations for a lifetime of love.
Markman, H. J., Stanley, S. M., & Blumberg, S. L. (2010). Fighting for your marriage.
Markman, H. J., Stanley, S. M.,… (2003). 12 hours to a great marriage: A step-by-step guide for making love last.
Notarius, C., & Markman, H. (1994). We can work it out: Making sense of marital conflict.
Wile, D. B. (1993). After the fight: Using your disagreements to build a stronger relationship.
Wile, D. B. (2008). After the honeymoon: How conflict can improve your relationship
DATING (SINGLE)
Tatkin, S. (2016). Wired for Dating
Kim, J. (2021). Single On Purpose
Moreck, E. (2021). Dating for Men: A Guide for Attracting Women
Mason, M. (2011). Models: Attract Women Through Honesty
Browne, J. (2011). Dating for dummies.
Katherine, A. (1994). Boundaries: Where you end and I begin.
Katherine, A. (2000). Where to draw the line: How to set healthy boundaries everyday.
Glover, R. (2001). No more Mr. Nice Guy!
Glover, R. (2021). Dating Essentials for Men
Gottman, J. (2016). The Man's Guide to Women
Gottman, J., Gottman, J.S. (2019). Eight Dates: Essential Conversations for a Lifetime of Love
Barrett, C. (2021). Dating Sucks, but You Don't:
Becker-Phelps, L. (2016) Love: The Psychology of Attraction: A Practical Guide to Successful Dating and a Happy Relationship.
Page, K. (2014). Deeper Dating.
Miler, A. (2020). Easyish: Keys To A (Relatively) Easy Relationship
Attwood, N. (1996). Be Your Own Dating Service.
Branden, N. (2008). The Psychology of Romantic Love
Kelley, D. (2016). Just Relationships: Living Out Social Justice as Mentor, Family, Friend, and Lover
Guloglu, M. O. (2020).The Science of Love and Attraction
Arguello, C. (2020). Swipeable: Avoid The 8 Mistakes Men Make On Dating Apps & Discover What Women Actually Want
Smith, S. (2017). The Tactical Guide to Women: How Men Can Manage Risk in Dating and Marriage
Van Epp, J. (2006 ). How to Avoid Marrying a Jerk
Campbell, S. (2005). Saying What's Real: 7 Keys to Authentic Communication and Relationship Success
Ury, L. (2021) . How to Not Die Alone: The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love
Campbell, S. (2011). Truth in Dating: Finding Love by Getting Real
Campbell, S. (2001). Getting Real: Ten Truth Skills You Need to Live an Authentic Life
Blanton, B. (2005). Radical Honesty: How to Transform Your Life by Telling the Truth
Geher, G., Kaufman, S.B. (2013). Mating Intelligence Unleashed
DIVORCE/SEPARATION
Ahrons, C. (1995). The Good Divorce: Keeping Your Family Together When Your Marriage Comes Apart.
Emery, R. E. (2006). The truth about children and divorce: Dealing with the emotions so you and your children can thrive.
Hetherington, E. M., & Kelly, J. (2003). For better or for worse: Divorce reconsidered.
Bonkowski, S. (1990). Children Are Nondivorceable. and Teens Are Nondivorceable.
Buchicchio, R. J. (2012) Taking Space: How To Use Separation To Explore The Future Of Your Relationship
Gottman, J., & Silver, N. (1999). The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work.
Katherine, A. (1991). Boundaries: Where You End and I Begin.
Krementz, J. (1998). How It Feels When Parents Divorce.
Markman, H. J., Stanley, S., and Blumberg, S. L. (1994). Fighting for Your Marriage.
Mayle, P., & Robins, A. (1998). Why Are We Getting a Divorce?
Phelan, T. W. (2004). 1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2–12 (3rd ed.).
Ricci, I. (1997). Mom’s House, Dad’s House: A Complete Guide for Parents Who Are Separated, Divorced, or Remarried.
Satir, V. (1988). The New People Making.
Rye, M. S. (2015). The Divorce Recovery Workbook: How to Heal from Anger, Hurt, and Resentment and Build the Life You Want.
Wallerstein, J., Lewis, J. M., & Blakeslee, S. (2000). The unexpected legacy of divorce: A 25-year landmark study
DIVORCE/SEPARATION: FOR CHILDREN
Brown, L. K., & Brown, M. (1998). Dinosaurs Divorce: A Guide for Changing Families.
Gardner, R. A. (1973). The Thinking, Feeling, and Doing Game: A Therapeutic Game for Children.
Zakich, R. (1995). The UnGame—Family Version.
FAMILY DYSFUNCTION
Allen, D. (2018). Coping with Critical, Demanding, and Dysfunctional Parents.
Campbell, S. (2019 ) But It's Your Family . . .: Cutting Ties with Toxic Family Members and Loving Yourself in the Aftermath
Covey, S. (1997). The Seven Habits of Highly Effective Families
Doherty, W. J. (1999). The Intentional Family
Feiler, B. (2013). The secrets of happy families: Improve your mornings, rethink family dinner, fight smarter, go out and play, and much more.
Forgatch, M., & Patterson, G. (2005). Parents and adolescents living together: Family problem solving.
Friel, J. (2010) Adult Children Secrets of Dysfunctional Families: The Secrets of Dysfunctional Families
Forward, S. (1989). Toxic Parents.
Gibson, L. (2015). Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents.
Gibson, L. (2019) Recovering from Emotionally Immature Parents.
Gibson, L. (2021) Self-Care for Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents
Markman, H. J., Stanley, S., & Blumberg, S. L. (1994). Fighting for Your Marriage.
Bany-Winters, L. (2006). Family Fun Nights: 140 Activities the Whole Family Will Enjoy
Jackson, T. (1998). Activities that Teach Family Values.
Coulson, R. (1996). Family Mediation: Managing Conflict, Resolving Disputes.
Levine, S. (2000). Getting to Resolution: Turning Conflict into Collaboration.
FINANCIAL CONFLICT
Rich, J. (2003). The couple’s guide to love & money.
Thakor, M., & Kedar, S. (2009). Get financially naked: How to talk money with your honey.
Bach, D. (2001). Smart couples finish rich: 9 steps to creating a rich future for you and your partner.
Kaplan, D. (2020) Battle of the Titans: Mastering the Forces of Sex, Money, and Power in Relationships
INFIDELITY
Glass, S. P. (2003). Not ‘‘just friends’’: Protect your relationship from infidelity and heal the trauma of betrayal.
Snyder, D. K., Baucom, D. H., & Gordon, K. C. (2007). Getting past the affair: How to cope, heal, and move on—Together or apart.
Spring, J. A. (1996). After the affair: Healing the pain and rebuilding trust when a partner has been unfaithful.
Spring. J. A. (2005). How can I forgive you?: The courage to forgive, the freedom not to.
Stosny, S. (2013). Living and Loving After Betrayal: How to Heal from Emotional Abuse, Deceit, Infidelity, and Chronic Resentment.
JEALOUSY
Blevis, M. (2009). Jealousy: Love’s Favorite Decoy.
Dryden, W. (2005). Overcoming Jealousy.
Hauck, P.A. Overcoming Jealousy and Possessiveness.
Pines, A. M. (1998). Romantic Jealousy: Causes, Symptoms, Cures.
Salovey, P. (1991). The Psychology of Jealousy and Envy
JOB STRESS
Asker, S. (1999). Plan B: How to Get Unstuck from Work, Family, and Relationship Problems.
Beck, A. (1989). Love is Never Enough: How Couples Can Overcome Misunderstanding, Resolve Conflicts, and Solve Relationship Problems through Cognitive Therapy.
Bernstein, J., & Magee, S. (2007). Why Can’t You Read My Mind? Overcoming the 9Toxic Thought Patterns that Get in the Way of a Loving Relationship.
Page, S., & Page, S. (1998). How One of You Can Bring the Two of You Together.
Fittern, F., & Gulas, B. (2002). Working in the dark: Keeping your job while dealing with depression.
Hellman, P. (2002). Naked at work (and other fears): How to stay sane when your job drives you crazy.
LOSS OF LOVE & AFFECTION
Brander, B. (2004). Love that works: The art and science of giving.
Goldstein, A., & Brandon, M. (2004). Reclaiming desire: 4 keys to finding your lost libido.
Hendrickson, G., & Hendrickson, K. (2004). Lasting love: The 5 secrets of growing a vital, conscious relationship.
MARRIAGE
Cordova, J. V. (2009). The marriage checkup: A scientific program for sustaining and strengthening marital health.
Gottman, J. M., Gottman, J. S., & Declaire, J. (2006). Ten lessons to transform your marriage.
Markman, H. J., Stanley, S. M., & Blumberg, S. L. (2010). Fighting for your marriage.
Kusi, M. (2016). First Year of Marriage: The Newlywed's Guide to Building a Strong Foundation and Adjusting to Married Life.
MENTAL LOAD/UNEVEN HOUSE WORK
Aponte , C. (201). A Marriage of Equals: How to Achieve Balance in a Committed Relationship
NEW COUPLE
Lundgren, M. (2021). Relationship Book for New Couples
PERSONALITY DIFFERENCES
Bittlingmaier, B. (2000). Shape up your personality—shape up your marriage.
Shackelford, R. (2002). Married to an opposite: Making personality differences work for you (psychology, religion, and spirituality).
Tannen, D. (1990). You just don’t understand: Women and men in conversation.
PSYCHOLOGICA, PHYSICAL, VERBAL ABUSE: VICTIM
Dugan, M. K., & Hock, R. R. (2000). It’s my life now: Starting over after an abusive relationship or domestic violence.
Evans, P. (1992). The verbally abusive relationship: How to recognize it and how to respond.
Forward, S. (1997). Emotional blackmail: When the people in your life use fear, obligation, and guilt to manipulate you.
Kramer, P. D. (1997). Should you leave? A psychiatrist explores intimacy and autonomy—and the nature of advice.
RELATIONSHIP REPAIR
Campbell, S. (2015). Five-Minute Relationship Repair: Quickly Heal Upsets, Deepen Intimacy, and Use Differences to Strengthen Love
Dreyfus, N. (2013). Talk to Me Like I'm Someone You Love, revised edition: Relationship Repair in a Flash
SEXUAL DYSFUNCTION IN A COUPLE
Goldstein, A., & Brandon, M. (2004). Reclaiming desire: 4 keys to finding your lost libido.
Comfort, A. (2009). The joy of sex: The timeless guide to love making, ultimate revised edition.
Kerner, I. (2004). She comes first: The thinking man’s guide to pleasuring a woman.
Kerner, I. (2008). Passionista: The empowered woman’s guide to pleasuring a man
McCarthy, B., & McCarthy, E. (2002). Sexual awareness: Couple sexuality for the twenty-first century.
SEXLESS MARRIAGE, LOW LIBIDO, DESIRE DISCREPANCY
Laurie Watson 2012 Wanting Sex Again: How to Rediscover Your Desire and Heal a Sexless Marriage
Michele Weiner Davis 2004The Sex-Starved Marriage: Boosting Your Marriage Libido: A Couple's Guide
Robert M Fleisher Roberta Foss-Morgan 2016 The Sexless Marriage Fix: Rescuing a Sexless Marriage and Making It All It Can Be Using This Empowering Integrative Approach
Talia, Wagner Allen Wagner 2019 Married Roommates: How to Go From a Relationship That Just Survives to a Marriage That Thrives
Jessa Zimmerman 2018 Sex Without Stress: A couple's guide to overcoming disappointment, avoidance & pressure
Marcus Kusi Ashley Kusi 2017 Emotional and Sexual Intimacy in Marriage
Winifred M. Reilly 2017 It Takes One to Tango: How I Rescued My Marriage with (Almost) No Help from My Spouse—and How You Can, Too
David Schnarch PhD 2009 Passionate Marriage: Keeping Love and Intimacy Alive in Committed Relationships
Danielle Harel PhD (Author), Celeste Hirschman MA 2019 Coming Together: Embracing your Core Desires for Sexual Fulfillment and Long-Term Compatibility
Stephen Snyder, M.D. 2018 Love Worth Making: How to Have Ridiculously Great Sex in a Long-Lasting Relationship
David Schnarch 2020 Intimacy & Desire: Awaken The Passion In Your Relationship (2nd ed.)
SEXUAL ORIENTATION CONFLICTS
Bawer, B. (1993). A Place at the Table. New York: Touchstone Books.
Clark, D. (1997). Loving Someone Gay. Berkeley, CA: Celestial Arts.
Powers, B. (1996). A Family and Friend’s Guide to Sexual Orientation: Bridging the
Divide Between Gay and Straight. New York: Routledge.
Walker, R. (1996). The Family Guide to Sex and Relationships
SEX (PARTNERED) TECHNIQUES
O’Reilly, J. (2020)The Ultimate Guide to Seduction and Foreplay: Techniques and Strategies for Mind-Blowing Sex.
SEPARATION
Buchicchio, R. J. (2012) Taking Space: How To Use Separation To Explore The Future Of Your Relationship
SHOULD I STAY, OR SHOULD I LEAVE?
Kirshenbaum, M. (1997) Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay: A Step-by-Step Guide to Help You Decide Whether to Stay In or Get Out of Your Relationship.
Richo, D. (2022). Ready: How to Know When to Go and When to Stay.
Birnbach, L. (2010). How to Know If It's Time to Go: A 10-Step Reality Test for Your Marriage.
Kramer, P. D. (1999). Should you leave?
